How close does a friend need to be before they get invited to your wedding? Also is it cool for people to keep asking if they are invited to your wedding. Friends in class when they're like "I'm invited to your wedding right?", thats rude....right...RIGHT? Just a little stressed about the wedding list, Ted has about a fifty bjillion people on his stide and I think I have twenty, those are going to be some unbalanced pews!
Ted's parents now know that the wedding has been pushed back and that it will be in October, and they're cool. As well the grandparents (mine) found out that the date is during their snow bird season, hopefully Florida can wait a couple more weeks.
Okay, so any guest list advice? Lauren I'm looking at you!
i say invite based on who you WANT to be there, not who should. this is your day, right?
ReplyDeleteif they are really family, they'll understand the tight budget of newlyweds (not to mention two undergrads) and get over the fact that they didn't get an invite.
your day, no one elses. if anything send out a card stating that, yes, you are getting married, and that you hope for support and love from all. letters of acknowledgement are a nice touch and keep your sanity at a comfortable level.
always remember, this is your day. if they wanna bitch about not being invited, do you really want them to around bitch about the wedding?
good luck babe!